If my grandmother Margaret Pointkouski was still alive, today would be her 100th birthday. This post is in her honor:
Just the Facts:
- Parents: Joseph Bergmeister (1873-1927) and Marie Echerer (1875-1919)
- Born: 11 April 1913, Philadelphia, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania
- Baptized: 13 April 1912, St. Peter’s RC Church, Philadelphia, PA
- Siblings: Marie (1898-1990), Joseph (1902-1986), Max (1905-1974), Julius 1908-19??), Charles (1909), Laura (1911)
- Married: James Pointkouski on 13 January 1934 in Media, Delaware County, Pennsylvania. The civil marriage was later blessed at St. Peter’s RC Church, Philadelphia, PA.
- Children: James and Jean
- Died: 14 January 1998
- Buried: 17 January 1998, Holy Redeemer Cemetery, Philadelphia, PA
Five Things I Learned About My Grandmother from Genealogical Records:
- Grandmom’s middle name, according to her baptismal record, was Hermina. No one knew where the name came from until I found Uncle Herman Goetz in my research, her father’s half-brother who was also her godfather. The reason why no one in the family remembered Uncle Herman is because he died in 1918 and she likely didn’t remember him at all.
- She was probably named after her maternal grandmother, Margarethe Fischer Echerer (1845-1895).
- Grandmom barely knew her parents. Her mother died in 1919 about six weeks before Grandmom’s 6th birthday. Then in 1927 when she was not quite 14, her father died.
- Although she was born in 1913, she is completely missing from the 1920 and 1930 census!
- Her first child, my father, was born less than seven months after the wedding.
Five Things I Learned About My Grandmother from My Dad and Aunt:
- According to my Aunt Jean, when Grandmom was born she was so tiny that she could fit into a shoebox. Her parents weren’t sure she’d survive – they had two children in between her brother Julius and her that only lived for one day.
- My grandmother always said that her Aunt Laura was very good to her. Laura was Hilaury Bergmeister Thuman, her father’s sister. After her parents died, Aunt Laura and her husband, Uncle Max, were the closest thing to parents she’d have. Uncle Max died in 1941 and Aunt Laura in 1943 – while I’m sure Grandmom would have liked their support for much longer in her life, at least by then she had a husband and children of her own.
- A description of her parents was passed down, but I’m not sure if the memory came from my grandmother or her older siblings – likely the siblings since she was so young when her mother died. But, her mother was remembered as a very short, fiesty woman who ruled the household – and ruled her husband, Joseph, whom she called “Sepp” for short. Although he was taller than his wife, he but obedient to everything she said.
- Grandmom met my Grandpop at her brother Max’s store. Grandpop worked as a truck driver delivering ice cream, and Max’s soda fountain was on his route. He spotted Margaret one day, and excitedly asked Max, “Who’s that?” Max looked around, “Her? Aw, she’s just my sister.”
- My Grandmom was called “Aunt Margie” by her nieces and nephews. She seemed to be very close to them, especially her nieces Marie and Mabel who were only 7 and 11 years younger than her (her sister Marie’s daughters). After Grandmom died, I found some correspondence in her house that she had saved over the years from her niece Helen and nephews Bob and Carl, all children of her brother Joseph.
Five Things I Learned About My Grandmother From Knowing Her:
- She always called my grandfather “Pop”
- She made ceramics as a hobby. Two that have survived over the years are a Christmas tree (with lights) and a candy dish shaped like a sleigh that says “The Pointkouski Family”. I remember from my childhood that she made my brother a hockey player figurine (or was it a lamp?) with a Flyers jersey, and a Tin Man lamp for my father when he played the Tin Man in a show.
- She was a knitter and made afghans. I still have one she made for our family.
- She was blind in one eye for the last 20+ years of her life. I think it was due to glaucoma.
- She always signed her cards “Grandmom, Love” instead of the other way around
Happy Birthday, Grandmom!